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yo! siannnnn.

people are leaving.
people left.
for ns.
for the next stage of their lives.
for a few weeks.
for a few years.
forever?

why do strangers meet, only to be separated in the future? when strangers meet, time is needed for them to understand each other. by the time strangers become friends, its already time for them to separate.


thats why some people never wanted to grow up so that they can stick to the same friends. but fate is larger than the individual. fate made people meet and fate makes people separate.


but people are social beings. we are defined by the bonds we make with others. distance will surely weaken the bond. but its our responsibility to hold on to the bond with our dear life and never let go. you always have a place in your friends heart. no distance far enough or time long enough can replace that place that belongs only to you. thats the special thing about friendship. you can forget about a friend. keep him/her in the fridge frozen and move on with your life. many years down the road when you remember of that friend again you can just take that friend out of the fridge and thaw him/her. (u know like food.) of course the friend will be pissed but he/she will never blame you and that friend will be good as new after sometime.

ok larh this is not my original analogy. got it from a song.


but yea thats the special thing about friendship. its not something that you can forget and throw away. its always kept inside you. the memories the feelings.


i was looking at some blogs. then i saw the footprints of people that they left behind in other people's life. well... lost for words. hmmm. let me try again.


okie wait let me stop my music player first i cant think with it playing in the background.

how do you judge a person's success? his fortunes? his status? or his relations with other people. the footprints he left behind. the way he affected other people's lives. the way that he will be remembered.

oh i think i say before. i hate saying goodbyes. it takes a lot of courage. to leave everything behind and move forward. the people that you know. people that you care. friends that care.
people who made you who you are today. people who left footprints in your life. and people whose lives you have left footprints in.


hmmm. i have witnessed alot of farewells. but somehow i still cant write a good article about it. zzz. sian. these are just words stringed together. these are not feelings. lol failed attempt to sound philosophical.


all i have to say is. move forward in life bravely and have no regrets. its part of growing up. dont worry about the bonds left behind. because the bonds are kept with you as you remember them forever.




as the footprints left behind in the sand are blown away by the wind.
memories continue to stay unforgotten and endure the harsh ordeal of time.